I'm very grateful for this question because it really made me think about how Brian participated in celebrating Finn's behavior. Brian, if we all remember, had been a teacher. So this question has me ruminating on how important it is for male role models to NOT embrace this sort of conduct. If Brian could even snicker about how Finn really showed that laborer by bedding his girlfriend, how was he capable of respecting the number of girls and young women he taught? Did his attitudes affect his expectations in the classroom? Did he use their gender to discount abilities or grant fewer opportunities? It seems that men have defined what is ok and what is not. Women have just fallen in line, nodding along at the old "boys will be boys" line and tsk-tsking when young women partake in similar behavior. Men have benefitted from these views- -what motivation do they have to change their thinking? I think women need to step up, call men out, pointedly ask them if they would treat their daughters/mothers/sisters like that. We need to find allies like the Kierans in this world willing to honestly examine their own behavior and call it out in the future when it does not match their values. Creating awareness of what is wrong with certain behavior/attitudes is not enough though. We can't just say, "Oh, yes, you're right, that phrase is so outdated haha." There MUST be meaningful action to change culture. (Think gym teacher creating lessons on how high school boys should treat their female classmates at a party.) There can't be "boy behavior"or "girl behavior"--I believe we need to address what kind of behavior we expect from human beings.